tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5674313104544718575.post7093885399377761981..comments2023-05-20T07:34:38.057-07:00Comments on Bits and Pieces: Privacy is for the birds.Leannehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17020780856206891718noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5674313104544718575.post-56209799343122253712011-07-16T20:55:44.979-07:002011-07-16T20:55:44.979-07:00♥♥Leslie G.noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5674313104544718575.post-73682148837610720942011-07-06T13:22:07.614-07:002011-07-06T13:22:07.614-07:00I ran across this comment in the Saracastic Luther...I ran across this comment in the Saracastic Lutheran blog (http://www.sarcasticlutheran.typepad.com) right after reading this entry of yours, and it so effectively articulated my reaction to your desire to be strong for your son. <br /><br />"...if you really want to witness the handiwork of the Spirit, just watch how God will use your failures. Just wait till you glimpse the masterful redemption that springs forth when you ask forgiveness for having been a total ass, just watch how grace will rush in to fill the spaces of your shortcomings.<br /><br />God reaches again and again into the graves we dig ourselves, continues to reach into our failures and yank out new life: just as God brought forth the universe from nothingness and water from a rock and babies from barren wombs and a church from a bunch of forgiven sinners. So don’t be afraid of your deficits, but rejoice in the spaces where you have nothing to offer, for this is the very canvas on which God’s best work is shown forth…just wait. I promise you this."<br /><br />I respectfully submit that our children learn just as much from our failures and weaknesses as they do from our strengths. They learn how to recover from mistakes, how to keep their heads high despite falling low, how to humbly acknowledge their limitations, how to graciously seek and accept forgiveness and help, and most importantly, how God works as much--if not more--with our weaknesses as he does with our strengths. Judicious sharing of our weaknesses and failures can be as loving a gift to our children as our strength can be.<br /><br />Having said that, I respect your desire to keep your blog private from your child. What one shares with friends is different than what one shares with one's children.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5674313104544718575.post-17670683004062125462011-06-24T19:37:09.079-07:002011-06-24T19:37:09.079-07:00What up, Leanne? You ARE cool, just like me. :D
...What up, Leanne? You ARE cool, just like me. :D <br />I love this. And it's true. Kids should think you know everything. They don't need to know we don't have the answers, just like they don't need to know about adult issues. You are a good mama. Just so you know.MindiJohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15786207107743192543noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5674313104544718575.post-40714397427405493562011-06-21T13:35:03.802-07:002011-06-21T13:35:03.802-07:00For what it's worth, I wish my parents had sha...For what it's worth, I wish my parents had shared moments of weakness. It would have helped when I was young in many ways (in teaching moments, in knowing that we all struggle in similar ways ..) and made it more ok that I am weak rather than thinking that weakness was unacceptable and not everyone struggles with it and that when I grew up, I'd have it all figured out like I thought they (and everyone else) did. :)Elizabeth Halthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01595395276757245598noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5674313104544718575.post-31045918024466301162011-06-20T06:20:16.498-07:002011-06-20T06:20:16.498-07:00Love your thoughts on this. My oldest, Matt, is 14...Love your thoughts on this. My oldest, Matt, is 14. I get it.Britanoreply@blogger.com